22 Best Marriage Advice for Newlyweds You Can't Afford to Ignore
When the wedding is over, visitors entertained,
gifts received and replies made, you’re
left alone with your spouse to face the reality of marriage. Every other person
stays aside watching to see your marriage unfold. I want to give you some
marriage advice which will guide you to swing into
action when the honeymoon is over. They are guaranteed to strengthen your
marriage and help you to gain insight
into marriage for a lovely, lifelong togetherness.
Read also: Financial Planning for Newly Married Couples
1.
The word ‘love’
implies action, and so you should show your love to your by action and not mere
utterance.
2.
Feel free
to argue but let it not be against each
other but both of you versus the problem.
3.
Continue flirting
with, and dating your spouse.
4.
Never starve
your partner of sex as a means of punishment
5.
Communicate,
dialogue, and talk as much as possible
6.
Do not
wash your dirty linens in public – settle issues between yourselves unless in
extreme cases.
7.
Let the
world see you both as world best friends
8.
Marriage doesn’t
entitle you to everything your spouse gives to you; learn always to be
grateful, just a ‘thank you’ will suffice at times.
9.
Always look
out for the positive side of your spouse and encourage it.
10.
Be always
concerned about the need of your spouse; don’t be self-centred no matter what you get in return.
11.
Keep on
getting to know your spouse.
12.
Don’t be
rigid, learn when to compromise and let peace reign.
13.
Don’t think
you should always be at the receiving end, no matter the strength of your
income, learn to give.
14.
Plan your
budget together, and have a joint account if possible, for the financial
running of the home.
15.
Don’t try
to change your spouse into your ideal person since most of your judgments are
subjective.
16.
Before having
children, have a healthy family planning together.
17.
No matter
how much gifts you lavish on your spouse, know that your company and listening
ear are the most precious gifts.
18.
Be fair
in divvying up chores between yourselves.
19.
Communicate
your feelings and not your thought. Love is not logical.
20.
Always look
amazing for your spouse.
21.
Respect your
spouse both at home and in the public.
22.
Create a connection with your spouse and not a control.
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