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Top 9 Ways How NOT to Save Your Marriage

by Ifeanyi - 3/31/2017 10:35:00 pm

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22 Best Marriage Advice for Newlyweds You Can't Afford to Ignore

by Ifeanyi - 3/10/2017 12:40:00 am

When the wedding is over, visitors entertained, gifts received and replies made, you’re left alone with your spouse to face the reality of marriage. Every other person stays aside watching to see your marriage unfold. I want to give you some marriage advice which will guide you to swing into action when the honeymoon is over. They are guaranteed to strengthen your marriage and help you to gain insight into marriage for a lovely, lifelong togetherness.

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1. The word ‘love’ implies action, and so you should show your love to your by action and not mere utterance.

2. Feel free to argue but let it not be against each other but both of you versus the problem.

3. Continue flirting with, and dating your spouse.

4. Never starve your partner of sex as a means of punishment

5. Communicate, dialogue, and talk as much as possible

6. Do not wash your dirty linens in public – settle issues between yourselves unless in extreme cases.

7. Let the world see you both as world best friends

8. Marriage doesn’t entitle you to everything your spouse gives to you; learn always to be grateful, just a ‘thank you’ will suffice at times.

9. Always look out for the positive side of your spouse and encourage it.

10. Be always concerned about the need of your spouse; don’t be self-centred no matter what you get in return.

11. Keep on getting to know your spouse.

12. Don’t be rigid, learn when to compromise and let peace reign.

13. Don’t think you should always be at the receiving end, no matter the strength of your income, learn to give.

14. Plan your budget together, and have a joint account if possible, for the financial running of the home.

15. Don’t try to change your spouse into your ideal person since most of your judgments are subjective.

16. Before having children, have a healthy family planning together.

17. No matter how much gifts you lavish on your spouse, know that your company and listening ear are the most precious gifts.

18. Be fair in divvying up chores between yourselves.

19. Communicate your feelings and not your thought. Love is not logical.

20. Always look amazing for your spouse.

21. Respect your spouse both at home and in the public.

22. Create a connection with your spouse and not a control.

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by Ifeanyi - 3/08/2017 02:48:00 pm

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10 Ways to Make Your Husband Happy

by Ifeanyi - 3/05/2017 08:50:00 am

To lubricate a marriage daily to be exciting and new every day is no doubt a heck of a work, especially amidst the unrelenting stress of daily life. However, there is nothing as blissful as having your marriage evergreen, you’ll never be fed up with your spouse and life will be worth living together every day. I have already written to men about how to make your pregnant wife happy and so I will focus more to the wives by showing you 10 ways to make your husband happy.

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Why you should make your husband happy

· The Golden rule – do unto others what you would want them to do unto you

· The mere having you as his wife qualifies him to enjoy happiness because you’re meant to give happiness.

· You’re the first human person he can get it from.

· As one flesh, you’re happy when he is happy.

#1 Show interest in his hobbies

This is one of the effective ways to make your husband happy. Showing interest doesn’t mean full involvement rather showing that you care. For instance, if he’s a fan of a particular football club, you may want to buy the jersey of that club for him or try to listen to him talk about football. He’ll see you not only as his wife but also his friend, someone to share his social life with.

#2 Respect him

Men despise anything that taints their ego and when it comes from their wives it’s always disastrous. I bet it, you will not want that. Try as much as possible to respect his opinion and never make him appear small before his friends. Allow him to be in charge even if you’re the mastermind of the particular affair.

#3 Enjoy sex

This may sound obvious but surely some people trivialise it. Don’t just have sex when you feel you’re aroused, it should be something that binds and intimates both of you. Try as much as possible to explore your bodies, enjoy romance and have fun together.

#4 Shun nagging

Don’t ever be a nag. It’s very effective only in driving your husband away from the house and making him keep late night. Nagging breeds annoyance which eventually leads to resentment.

#5 Trustful

When you show your hubby that you trust him against all odd, he will struggle never to break that trust. Believe me, men are very conceited. Your trust is a sort of trophy to them and they won’t want to lose it. Never spy on him – like checking his chats, contacts or reading his messages. Don’t make the mistake of carrying the baggage of your experience from your other failed relationships into your matrimonial home.

#6 Text him when he least expect

This may look trivial but it works. There is a sense of importance it carries. Try and make out time and text your hubby, maybe during work hour or when he is not expecting it. When texting him be romantic, let him know that you are thinking of him even at work or some unusual place.

#7 Understand him

Sometimes men behave like overgrown babies, don’t be too sarcastic when they behave this way. Try to show your hobby some level of understanding. Sometimes he may come back late, be calm, hug him and welcome him in. allow him to rest, before throwing any question at him; but try to observe his mood. Don’t overreact at his little misdeed. Just understand him first before judging.

#8 Be homely

Make your home a heaven for your hobby. Let him hunger for home knowing fully well that his queen is waiting for him in his kingdom. Keep the home organised and neat. Cook his favourites.

#9 Look attractive for him

Some ladies always care less of their appearance once they get married. It’s necessary to look attractive for your spouse. It will make him feel proud of you in the public. Men love people telling them how pretty their wives look. Nobody wants to be associated with any old rickety looking wife.

#10 Give him your time

Find a moment to be with him alone. If you have children it may be a little bit difficult but you can always make out time. When you create this time, switch off every distraction, phones, laptops, etc. let him know that you’re out for him alone that moment.

Do you want to learn more how to make your husband happy with you? Well, you can’t find exhaustive tips anywhere but I believe you have it within you to be a good wife. You just need some guidance which I have given you here. So the ball is in your court now. Share this post to your friends and let us get your comment in the comment area.

Stories Matter

Top 9 Ways How NOT to Save Your Marriage

How to Surmount In-laws Problems in Marriage

Developing Healthy Relationship with Parents after Marriage

22 Best Marriage Advice for Newlyweds You Can't Afford to Ignore

8 Tips on Financial Planning for Newly Married Couples

10 Ways to Make Your Husband Happy

Why you should make your husband happy

#1 Show interest in his hobbies

#2 Respect him

#3 Enjoy sex

#4 Shun nagging

#5 Trustful

#6 Text him when he least expect

#7 Understand him

#8 Be homely

#9 Look attractive for him

#10 Give him your time

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