10 Ways to Make Your Husband Happy
To lubricate a marriage daily to be exciting and new
every day is no doubt a heck of a work, especially amidst the unrelenting
stress of daily life. However, there is nothing as blissful as having your
marriage evergreen, you’ll never be fed
up with your spouse and life will be worth living together every day. I have
already written to men about how to make your pregnant wife happy and so
I will focus more to the wives by showing you 10 ways to make your husband
happy.
Read also: How to have a happy family
Why you should make your husband happy
·
The Golden
rule – do unto others what you would want them
to do unto you
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The mere
having you as his wife qualifies him to enjoy happiness because you’re meant to
give happiness.
·
You’re the
first human person he can get it from.
·
As one flesh,
you’re happy when he is happy.
#1 Show interest in his hobbies
This is one of the effective ways to make your husband
happy. Showing interest doesn’t mean full involvement rather showing that you
care. For instance, if he’s a fan of a particular football club, you may want
to buy the jersey of that club for him or try to listen to him talk about
football. He’ll see you not only as his wife but also his friend, someone to
share his social life with.
#2 Respect him
Men despise anything that taints their ego and when it
comes from their wives it’s always disastrous. I bet it, you will not want
that. Try as much as possible to respect his opinion and never make him appear
small before his friends. Allow him to be in charge even if you’re the
mastermind of the particular affair.
#3 Enjoy sex
This may sound obvious but surely some people
trivialise it. Don’t just have sex when you feel you’re aroused, it should be
something that binds and intimates both
of you. Try as much as possible to explore your bodies, enjoy romance and have
fun together.
#4 Shun nagging
Don’t ever be a nag. It’s very effective only in
driving your husband away from the house and making him keep late night. Nagging
breeds annoyance which eventually leads to resentment.
#5 Trustful
When you show your hubby that you trust him against
all odd, he will struggle never to break that trust. Believe me, men are very conceited.
Your trust is a sort of trophy to them and they won’t want to lose it. Never spy
on him – like checking his chats, contacts or reading his messages. Don’t make
the mistake of carrying the baggage of your experience from your other failed
relationships into your matrimonial home.
#6 Text him when he least expect
This may look trivial but it works. There is a sense
of importance it carries. Try and make out time and text your hubby, maybe
during work hour or when he is not expecting it. When texting him be romantic,
let him know that you are thinking of him even at work or some unusual place.
#7 Understand him
Sometimes men behave like overgrown babies, don’t be too sarcastic when they behave this way.
Try to show your hobby some level of understanding. Sometimes he may come back
late, be calm, hug him and welcome him in. allow him to rest, before throwing
any question at him; but try to observe his mood. Don’t overreact at his little
misdeed. Just understand him first before judging.
#8 Be homely
Make your home a heaven for your hobby. Let him hunger
for home knowing fully well that his queen is waiting for him in his kingdom. Keep
the home organised and neat. Cook his favourites.
#9 Look attractive for him
Some ladies always care
less of their appearance once they get married. It’s necessary to look attractive
for your spouse. It will make him feel proud of you in the public. Men love
people telling them how pretty their wives look. Nobody wants to be associated
with any old rickety looking wife.
#10 Give him your time
Find a moment to be with him alone. If you have
children it may be a little bit difficult but you can always make out time.
When you create this time, switch off every distraction, phones, laptops, etc.
let him know that you’re out for him alone that moment.
Do you want to learn more how to make your husband
happy with you? Well, you can’t find exhaustive tips anywhere but I believe you
have it within you to be a good wife. You just need some guidance which I have
given you here. So the ball is in your court now. Share this post to your friends
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